Chinese couple can't take custody of baby born to Idaho surrogate over travel restrictions
BOISE, Idaho — A Chinese couple has been prevented by coronavirus health restrictions from traveling to the U.S. to take custody of their newborn child, who remains with her surrogate mother in Idaho.
Emily Chrislip gave birth to the healthy girl at a Boise hospital May 18, but her biological parents in Beijing have waited months for their first embrace with the infant, The Idaho Statesman reported.
After a public health emergency was declared in the U.S. because of the coronavirus, travel restrictions to and from China took effect Feb. 2.
“There’s really no update on when (the parents) will be able to get here,” Chrislip said.
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Chrislip, who is married and has a 2-year-old son, said she became a gestational carrier, or surrogate, to help couples struggling with fertility issues. Parents who seeks surrogates generally have exhausted other fertility options or cannot conceive for medical reasons.
After investigating the surrogate process, Chrislip connected with a couple from China, who were not identified.
“Once we were talking about it more and more and she told me her reasoning and how awesome it would be to be able to do that for a family, I was all for it,” Emily Chrislip said.
Chrislip estimates she received between $35,000 and $40,000 in compensation for her surrogacy, which she and her husband, Brandon Chrislip, used to pay off student loans and buy a bigger house.
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Chrislip has returned to work after taking four weeks off from her job as a marketing and admissions specialist, which she thought would be enough time for the baby’s biological parents to travel to the U.S.
“We tried to put ourselves in the parents’ shoes,” Chrislip said. “If it was our child, what would we want for our baby? If we ever had to use a surrogate, we hope that she would be willing to take care of our baby.”
Sending the family pictures and videos nearly every day, the two families have grown closer, she said.
They also have learned to approach the situation with a sense of humor.
“I’ll have people come into work and be like: ‘Oh yeah, I have this problem because of the pandemic,’” Chrislip said. “I’m like, ‘Well, I bet I’ll beat your problem.’”